The world is chaotic and deeply unsettling. We look for ways to understand and control our lives. Conspiracy theories come out of the need to make sense of a world that is very confusing. However all they do is promote fear and anxiety.
From the stories that you have shared to me personally, on Word Press and on Face Book, I would suggest that many of you have suffered abuse at the hands of spiritual leaders. We all hate the word abuse and usually recoil from it. We don’t like to talk about it. It is reserved for especially evil people. Yet are all capable of abuse and in its most common form we use it to control people. Spiritual Abuse is when spiritual leaders cross the boundary from care and nurturing to control, neglect and rejection.
Spiritual abuse comes from someone that you are asked to trust, that the community trusts and that society trusts. This is difficult because group trust desensitises your alarm systems. It is also wrapped up in theology and your vision of who God is. This abuse is harder to see coming and when it does it takes you out. Trust is at the core of every relationship and very difficult to get back once broken.