All dysfunctional relationships happen on the victim or drama triangle. Each of us has a primary starting point which is usually learned in our family of origin. We are set up in our families to carry on these roles. We have a story that our family give us. It can be as simple as the birth order. Mine is the Rescuer. The fixer. The classic enabler. Lets just make everything okay. The rescuer has all the answers. There’s no better way to feel important than to be a saviour! Taking care of others may be the Rescuers best game plan for getting to feel worthwhile.