When you practice love you will stop judging others. You will love unconditionally. “The self-righteous scream judgments against others to hide the noise of skeletons dancing in their own closets.”
― John Mark Green
I was raised in a fundamental and moralistic religious group. They practised a doctrine of perfection that was presented as a carrot tied by string to the end of a stick. You could never quite achieve it, the rules kept changing and if you failed they hit you with the stick.
‘No one is ever quite pure enough, moral enough or holy enough or enough of an insider of the proper group’ (Rohr, Immortal Diamond).