25 Tips for Coping with Grief at the Holidays

Seek gratitude.  I know this is tough.  But try to find one daily thing to be grateful for throughout the holiday season.  Write it down, photograph it, share it on facebook.  Whatever.  Just look for the little things. 
Remember, it is okay to be happy – this doesn’t diminish how much you love and miss the person who isn’t there this holiday.  Don’t feel guilty for the joy you do find this holiday season.